“日渐清醒，得失随意”

1、有缘之人不会轻易走散，无缘之人终究留不住。当感受不到爱意时，记得要全身而退，大大方方地走出来。释怀，是每个人人生中的必修课。将自己归还给原本的自己，把别人也归回他们原本的模样。

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People who are destined to be together won't drift apart easily, while those who aren't can't be retained. When you don't feel love, remember to withdraw completely and walk away gracefully. Letting go is a compulsory course in everyone's life. Return yourself to your original self and others to their original selves.3

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2、村上春树说：‘我突然间想明白了，即便我依旧喜欢你，我也不再强求了。因为我已没有纠缠你的勇气，也失去了那份执着。放过你，实则就是放过我自己。’ 本文来自小美句子

Haruki Murakami said, "Suddenly, I realized that even though I still like you, I won't force it anymore. Because I no longer have the courage to pester you, nor the persistence. Letting go of you is actually letting go of myself."

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3、我的外表称不上惊艳，灵魂也并非格外有趣。我生于茫茫尘埃，淹没在茫茫人海之中，关于我的一切都平凡得不能再平凡。即便如此，我也是宇宙的孩子，与植物、星辰并无二致。 来源xmjUzi.com

My appearance is not stunning, and my soul is not particularly interesting. I was born in the vast dust and drowned in the crowd. Everything about me is as ordinary as it can be. Even so, I am also a child of the universe, no different from plants and stars.

4、总有一天你会领悟，任何关系走到最后，不过是相识一场罢了。大家都只是彼此人生阶段性的陪伴。那些曾经让你日思夜想的人，以及始终没有答案的问题，到最后，岁月都会为你淡淡地一笔带过。One day you will understand that in the end, any relationship is just an acquaintance. Everyone is just a stage - by - stage companion in each other's lives. Those people you used to think about day and night, and the questions that have no answers, in the end, time will simply brush over them for you.

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5、把自己的圈子缩小，把说话的语速放缓，把心胸放宽，将生活打理得简单些。用心去做好手头的事情，不贪恋尘世的浮华，不书写红尘的纷扰。看看天上的明月，吹吹人间的微风，过着平常的日子。该属于你的，终将会来到你身边。

Narrow down your social circle, slow down your speaking speed, broaden your mind, and simplify your life. Concentrate on doing the things at hand well. Don't be greedy for the vanity of the world, and don't write about the troubles of the mortal world. Look at the bright moon in the sky, feel the breeze on earth, and live an ordinary life. What belongs to you will eventually come to you.

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6、人生是用来体验的，并非用来追求完美演绎的。我逐渐接受自己的迟钝与平庸，允许自己犯错，允许自己偶尔状态不佳。即便带着遗憾，也要努力绽放光彩，这是与自己达成和解的唯一途径。希望大家都能放下焦虑，与并不完美的自己和解，进而去爱那个完整的自己。 来源xmjuzI.com

Life is for experiencing, not for perfectly performing. I gradually accept my slowness and mediocrity, allow myself to make mistakes, and allow myself to be in a bad state occasionally. Even with regrets, I still strive to shine. This is the only way to reconcile with myself. I hope everyone can let go of anxiety, reconcile with their imperfect selves, and then love their whole selves. 来源xmjuzi.coM